Is it possible to control our sexuality and to use it in our practice? I myself experience it as a rather uncontrollable energy.

Lama Ole’s answer:

This is the age-old question of psychology. People used to think sexuality was just there and that we couldn’t control it. Today, we see it as part of our totality instead of thinking of it as a loose cannon shooting in every possible direction. We can awaken it, calm it, or guide it in the desired direction.